But this is perhaps a real miracle – to preserve a couple in the conditions of new technologies! I observe around the parting associated with inappropriate frankness. A message that was seen by accident, fatal access to someone else’s account on Facebook (an extremist organization banned in Russia). Seven years of marriage, seven years of excellent memories have disappeared like smoke due to a message of several signs: “Thank you for this evening. “
One word is very expensive. You can categorically deny everything, but it’s so sexy when you are thanks to the evening. My friend herself was to blame for being abandoned;I still see how she is angry with herself for those few hours of absence that turned into a lifelong sentence due to the fact that she did not know how to use the soundless regime of her phone. She was unlucky. She first changed her husband, and he did not forgive her for this.
They say that we are increasingly divorcing, because the slightest disagreement moves us away from each other. In my opinion, it will be more precisely to say that we part due to the slightest evidence of the error. If not for the SSMES, Tony Parker and Eve Longoria, perhaps there would have been two children.
Modern life ultimately turns out to be nothing more than a sequence of traces of our intimate life that we leave behind. It used to be incomparably easier to lie, hide, even run away. I’m talking not only about infidelity, but also just about those moments of life when we need to stay where no one will find us.
Is this possible at all these days? There is a feeling that everything becomes known sooner or later. Someone will speak, post a comment, write a tweet. We constantly, and often without knowing about it, are surrounded by witnesses of our wandering. All life is happening in the light today, and we have nowhere to hide.
Everything becomes known, but this is because no one hides anything else. Can society survive in such circumstances? Two relationships – they definitely can’t. Is it possible to tell a friend-writer that his book is bad? Is it possible to tell a neighbor that his wife is a fool? Is it possible to tell colleagues what you really think about them? No, the durability of any relationship is based on the evasion of the truth. And it was this evasion that always constituted the happiness of each of us. Our era questioned this truth. And this is undoubtedly one of the main challenges that carry new technologies.
We come up with different special options. Messages that are self -destroyed immediately after they have been read. More and more sophisticated confidentiality settings on Facebook (prohibited in Russia extremist organization)
. All these monsters that we gave rise to and which destroy us are similar to a robot from the 2001 space Odyssey (1968, dir. Stanley Kubrick). Ah, how beautiful it was! We were all connected with each other! Now it is finished with this. Now the situation is more likely: “What kind of blonde is still a photo on your wall?”Or:” Who is Marta, who continuously sends you SSMEMSK?»Under the name of Marta hides Marat, but this is a very mediocre Alibi. It’s scary to say it, but this is like this: the truth gives rise to a lie. And soon any couple will start a life together with the closure of their accounts on Facebook (an extremist organization banned in Russia). And in the registry office they will be told: “Be together in grief and in joy, but the main thing is that there is no wifay”.